So what is the difference between a wife and a concubine....
Is wife a concubine to have sex with and have kids with?
KG, I didnt read the complete post ..its too long

But I , for myself,want a woman to love and to share my life with HERs( Meaning she has a life too other than me) if the essence of what you wrote above is similar , than it would work for me , otherwise .....