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Originally Posted by bhenjee
never knew abt this thing....... im like starryeyedsurprised right now......
soo... wat kinda circumstances lead to this 'muttah' ? like citizenship/visa issues?? or property/ will issues....?? or simply cuz it kinda legalizes ur gettin laid (by ur government and NOT in the court of Allah) without havin to feel guilty?
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Look, if you arent informed about a sudden religious practice, that does not make it wrong.... This was practiced by Sahabas at the time of Prophet Muhammed pbuh. Now, ask yourself why did it come in practice?
Do some research instead of just making your own "personal fatwa".
God has created sexuality in human kind. It does not go away just because a person is single etc. This practice is also done in sudden Arab societies, so we cant say its beyond the decree of the laws of Islam. Different schorlars have their view when it comes to mutah.
Mutah is NOT for girls whom are unmarried. They need to stay virgin and keep themselves pure. Mutah is for those woman, widows and divorcees.....
You cant deny the fact, our society especially our men prefer to have virgin girls to get married to. Its perfectly ok, but where are the out siders suppose to go or to do? Should widows or divorcees then turn to zinah because they can not control their need? We cant just say, its expected of women to deny their sexuality. Its do-able for a time limit...but then, we are human and end of the day, no one can remain without total physical contact at an young age.....
When things really go bad, it turns to honour killings...because society looks down upon the males of the family whom can not "control" their female relatives......
I might be annoying some due to my very forward way of addressing this issue, but I think, I can handle it due to my choice of further studies and current proffession.
So, if women stands between the choice of zinah or mutah, for heavens sake, Id say...go for mutah. There is no excuse for zinah when mutah is an option, God has given man kind. We can argue why and by who it was all of sudden no longer right to practice in Islam. I shall try to find hadice etc historical reference, to put it at larger aspect.