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Pathani · Aug 13th, 2007, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by bhenjee

ok, in all due respect, we totally can't compare ourselves to the lives of those who were there in the times of our holy Prophet (pbuh). in that case, he himself married countless women to save them from slavery and other inhuman treatment, however, in Islam, men are only allowed 4 wives!

anDDD, dude, instead of giving anyone a choice between 'zinah' n 'muttah', why not give anyone who's hormonally challenged the choice between 'zinaah' n 'nikaah'!!!!

with all your knowledge and professional background..... why dont you enlighten me and the rest of us in the CORRECT teachings of Islam, post some url's for us to read upon.

in my understanding of ISLAM, sLEEPING WITH ANYONE WITH WHOM YOU DONT HAVE UR NIKAAH DONE IS HARAAAAAAAAAAM!!

^Yeah as if Islam is unified under ONE jamaat or school of thoughts.
If you had any knowledge, you would KNOW mutah is a contract formed just as Niqah. The difference is time and conditions. The man is not responsible providing financially. And try not to write in BIG letters, dont shout, thanks! Make your point peacefully......

Are Sahabas not human? They were bashar just as rest of the crowd. Its so typical to portray sahabas or even prophets pbut as if they didnt have any sex drive? (We would exalt as human beings, if we strived for perfection.....)
And if (none time based) niqah was done so easily as you think, nobody would remain divorcée or widow? Did you feel the urge to to think out side your narrow conservative mind for once?
I am not going to refer URLs under any condition. Google as rest of the world does, bhenjee. Take time out and do research, instead of clinging to your "understanding" of Islam. I deny to wave banners for other sects or websites.

Islam is more than just one firqah...... and thanks heaven for that.

Yes, as nurse I get to face a lot of different cases. This is yet another taboo, just as majority of people believe elders dont have the need of intimacy etc. And I am to become sexologist in future, so I dont have any phobia related to the issue. There are many couples of Muslim origin having problems when it comes to intimacy.

So summa summarum: for some mutah is equal to time based niqah.

Let me clarify one thing. I am not "in" for mutah. I regard it as a choice between plague and cholera. Im a realistic human being and I dont judge any regardless whatever decision they make in their lives. Some can live with the fact they have done mutah, others cant. Its also a matter of temperment.
Mutah is looked down upon regardless country or society. (I dont think, most men can refrain from boasting they have "had" a woman)

A poem:
Insaan jeetay jee khataoo sey kar ley tauba?
Majburiooney kehiin farishtay banaay......

Since this thread is from the old archives, it means its done by the hands of a moderator/admin/team. I dont have more to say this in regard. Period.