Aug 15th, 2007, 05:38 PM
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Chakkar
Join Date: Apr 28, 2001 - 7:00 am
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Originally Posted by Pathani
I have more respect for a woman who does mutah than a weak Muslim turning into zinah.... And I often come across, the absurd reaction of young Sunni divorcees women/widow that they look down upon mutah, but majority of these that I know 110 % have affairs/zinah with hindus, white men or former boy friends..... That seems ok to them. I lost many of my friends this particular way.
As woman, I dont think of Mutah as honourable or a suitable solution for lack of intimacy. We have a choice in western countries to remarry without major problems, but that is not the fact/reality for lots of women in our Muslim countries. Culture wise, widows are expected not to remarry. So they turn into having a double life due to forced conditions. And poor fellow whomever marries a divorcee, his buddies claps his shoulders for his "sacriface".....lol Thats what I going on...... Now kindly take a min. and also ponder about social injustice women are forced to face...... At the end, ONLY ALLAHJEE shall and will judge us.
And by saying all this, I rest my case. I said, whatever I had to say.
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Referring to the bold...did you ever stop and think of the third alternative: Keeping your pants zipped?!?
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