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Old Aug 11th, 2008, 05:00 PM   #14 (permalink)
RupayHalwa
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May I ask how old the husband and wife are?

They need to sit down with eachother and have a frank discussion without getting emotional / angry / hysterical.

Wife needs to explain to the husband why she feels its wrong for him to go to mother and tell her about everything.

Husband needs to tell wife WHY he has the need to tell mother about everything. And WIFE needs to LISTEN.

Husband needs to understand he gotta confide in wife, and wife maybe to start with should keep her objections to herself until husband feels he can openly say anything to her.

Communication and trust issues?

Also, find a good book on Islamic guidance for families / married couples and show him various extracts that would help your case.






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