we've been married for just over a year now, and lately the baby questioning has just jumped into full-speed mode - everyone and their mom wants to know, but fair enough, we want kids. i talk about having kids with my family, my hubby is looking forward to it too and hopefully next year this time, we'll be expecting. what we're getting now though, is the other side of the argument- will you quit work after you have the baby? daycares are no good. if you don't stay at home with your baby and instead go back to work and send them to daycare with strangers, then you're a bad mother. but what if i have to go back to work? what if thats the only way we can afford a certain lifestyle and be able to give our kid what we want? and more than that, what if i WANT TO? it seems even when you choose to have a child, there are always people out there wanting to rain on your parade and make sure you conform to the kind of life they led, whether it was pleasant or not. in the end, you really must stick to your guns and do what makes you and your partner happy..... even if you have to hear about it for the rest of your life
