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Old Aug 17th, 2008, 06:36 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by KAKA-ATOM-BUM View Post
Its amazing how many of you said you would be extremely angry and upset if your partners didnt fast. Or maybe the ones who would let them be havent really bothered replying. How can you force someone to fast? IF their neeyat is not to fast, thats that... no matter how many days they spend staying hungry, they arent fasting for Allah, they are fasting for you. Like Faisal said, when it comes to faith and religion... every person has to do their own thing and answer for their own deeds... you can encourage them to, but thats about it. Let them decide what they want to do. You can bring up roza's fazeelat and the sawab and how good it is etc. and get them to start to want to fast,, which would be great, but you simply cant force someone to fast. I dont quite get the reason why you'd be upset either. Namaz comes before roza... worry about that if you really are looking for an excuse to get angry. Bhooka rehna isnt the same as fasting.
Totally agree

i Wouldnt be mad at my partner for not fasting he would have to answer to God for his own actions not me all i can do is guide him







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