khawateen

i live at home with my husband... barkat enters our home according to our actions... i would not want the whole burden of it to stand on my shoulder by only me praying or fasting or acting according to allah's will... sometimes god takes away barkat due to ones actions.. i wouldnt want others to suffer because of my ways so my husband too should think accordingly... thats how i would like all couples to think.. but we arent always consistent in our prayers or reading quran but fasting for that one special month in the yr is something every muslim man and woman, can get their act together for.

but ya, at the end of the day, all u can do is ask your spouse to do if they dont.. cant force a grown man or woman to do something they dont want to.

i would be not so happy with my husband if he chose not to fast. for me, its like losing a sense of respect for him.