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From your previous thread and now this I think when he runs and tells his mom everything, his mom perhaps tells him that you do the same.
Your best bet to make this work is not to be upset with him. Things like this don't change overnight or within a week or two. Such things take time. You should calm down. Remember, the reason he runs and tells his mom everything is that she gives him a feeling of security and a sense of understanding that no matter what he does, he is accepted by her.
You have to reciprocate that. Become very calm with him. Treat him like he wants to be treated. Make him feel as special as he feels when he runs to his mother. (sad, but true). Slowly, he will see that he doesn't need to run to his mother anymore since all that he needs, he gets from you. THAT'S what you need to take away from his mother. If he gets all he desires from you, he wont need to run to anyone else.
But this will take time. You will have to give up some of your time and a lot of your energy. But in the end, you will have a husband all yours. But remember, don't lose our temper. Two people cannot lose their tempers together and be productive.
Soon, Inshallah, he will be the husband you need him to be.
I know you feel low and depressed but take this on as a challenge. A wife's challenege. You need your husband to be there for you and you're going to make it happen.
ps: Do you have any kids? If you don't, I suggest you hold off on having any just yet.
If you need to talk, you can PM me.
Be safe.
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