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Old Aug 19th, 2008, 11:58 PM   #17 (permalink)
Faisal
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Originally Posted by Desi_BeauTii View Post
Or maybe the mother in law in the never grew up. Both were stupid to argue, but the mother in law being the elder should have been the adult in the situation... every women is different this isn't something that they should have argued about...
I agree with you on who should be the adult, but its astonishing that someone can actually carry a grudge for 2 years. And that over something that is not pre-meditated, but spur-of-the-moment hot headedness, and also when the other person has also apologized. Anyone can say any thing stupid at any point. We all have probably said things in life which we wouldn't have if we had just paused for a moment to think first. Thats ok. All of us are humans. If we realize a mistake, say sorry, then its best to just move on. Thats all I am saying. I suspect that this story, if real, has a lot more in it than whats disclosed, so I am not about to waste too much time analyzing it. However, these comments are probably helpful for all of us in our lives. You'd look like a fool if you carry a grudge beyond its expiration date.







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