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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 12:30 AM   #61 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Stylical View Post
I have heard many stories of young widow and orphan women who are surviving harder in Pakistani society.
Sexual harassment and confronting the other hardship of life ,doing all alone for a woman ,specially in Pakistan, is not easy.
My cousin tried to help a woman by paying her rent and grocery ,but she did not accept it ....because in this case many other ppz were questioning............as she is pro......

In Pakistan women are double in number then men .............. so ,Do you think they should live alone all their life ?



According to the CIA fact book and several other sources, there are 100 women to every 111 men in Pakistan. So first off, your statistics are incorrect.

Second, no person, let alone a woman, needs to live a lonely life unless they choose to. In lesser sophisticated societies, the female gender faces more social issues than the male gender. If each married man marries a second time simply to eradicate sexual harassment and social misfortune against single women, we will eventually be living in a polygamist culture which is unacceptable by most.

In more simpler words, the fact is, even in today's contemporary world, some people hold firm beliefs that all or most of a woman's suffering will cease if she is attached to a man. The truth of the matter is, both genders need each other the same and rely on each other in similar fashions.

Unless we change this concept of dependance of one gender on the other to dependance of both genders on each other, we will not be helping either gender.






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