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OK mystical rain, I am surprised at your reply, maybe I was not very clear. Please dont take it as if I dont value your comments, i do, but you dont seem to understand the real picture.
Although I may not have very high qualification, my major issue is experience. That will be resolved when I spend some time and gain more experience. Secondly, since both of us have decent money, employment is not really an issue. We live like any couple that probably makes over 100k in US and we still have savings every month. Let's just say that none of us ever need to work to get money. However she has mentioned in a few fights that I have such an easy life that I have no responsibilities. What is the meaning of that when money from me is not even needed, and it is not like I will never work or have a business. I am just not qualified or good at it right now.
As far as the food issue goes, why dont people understand how embarrassing it is to ask/ demand for a certasin dish in a new marriage. Why cant she make them? Anyway that issue has been resolved, i just mentioned it as an example of some of our initial problems. I do get the dishes I like most of the time. Although it did come up in some of our fights as she questioned the involvement of my mother and telling her and why I didnt ask her directly. This tells me she doesnt even understand my side.
yes, i didnt buy a latest sporty SUV, but we have a decent car of her own, why mention that. What is so special about her brother that I have to listen on and on about his accomplishments. I have a good relationship with her brother and we have played a few holes together.
Why cant she see my sacrifices? She says that she understand my living so far away from family but does she? how do I know that she does when we are constantly fighting all the time over other issues. I want to go back to Pakistan so bad but she thinks we should spend more time together so we resolve our issues. Our issues will be resolved when my depression is over. I hate US of Hay, ****e hole. And the town we are living in does not even has the big town feel like lahore. It is like a third world country with nothing much to do. The only activity I have is 18 holes of golf a week a few outings with friends I have made like 2/3 times a month. Movies maybe twice a month, and those are not even like the latest, we always get them one or two weeks after the rest of the world has seen it.
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