Ira

I agree with Mamaof3. Things that go between a husband and wife should stay between them, and i am not just talking about bedroom stuff. I would hate it if my husband ran to his mother with every problem we had between us. Mothers are partial to their own kids and even if she tries not to, your mother will be partial to you.

I think your biggest problem is lack of communication. You need to tell your wife about your problems, not your mother.