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Originally Posted by lothario
also people, why is everyone hell bent on me getting a job? Why do you thing such roles are defined? I have cooked and will jump to get in the kitchen myself if needed, it is just that my cooking or my job is not needed. Why do you think a woman needs to cook and a man needs to earn? I thaught I was the Pakistani jatt. haha
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before you say something even more idotic.. let me clear few things (correct me if i am wrong):
- You don't work
- You don't cook
so what exactly do you do all day?
- Your wife cooks
- Your wife works
So what exactly do you do in this marriage? No one is asking that you should work and she should sit at home.. but its common logic that a husband usually earns money to provide for his family. Call it paindo, call it whatever you want. If you look around yourself, you will see that 100% of the ppl around you follow that logic.
Allah ka shukar hai kay you are not handicapped or anything like that which makes you sit at home on your ass.
You have to present a case for yourself here. You gotta show us what is that you bring to the marriage?