Originally Posted by Mamaof3

I agree with Faisal. And the biggest most glaring issue right now is your statement "my mother has a right to know every single thing that hapens in our relationship".

WRONG. You are no longer living with Mommy. You are the head of a household, you are a man and you have a wife. You share things with your wife that you DO NOT share with your mother. I totally understand your wife's aggressiveness - it is likely born of frustration that she married a little boy instead of a man. Are you too young for this? Not ready yet to leave the nest? Thats OK if thats the case...but if that IS the case then you need to figure out how you want to address it ... and you need to figure it out with your WIFE. NOT your mother.