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Originally Posted by lothario
Mirch, what rule says husbands should not whine when their complaints are on merit. Kya mard ka dil nahi dard kerta?
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Whining is when the complaints are baseless. I am sorry to say against that you are whining about petty things.
She does not cook what I like , the bed sheets are pink , she says that her friends husband bought a nice house , a nice car.
When the complaints are genuine they are communicated to the person against whom you have complaints and things are sorted out between two adults.
I agree to most posters here that you have too much time at your hands. Make yourself busy and you will magically find out that your life is full of adventure and you will come out of this self pity mode. These are some ways to make yourself busy and valuable member of society register yourself with some volunteer program. Go clean your Masjid. Pray nawafil , read and ponder on Quran . Start writing a blog or a book about how stay home husbands can make them useful and lead meaningful lives when you start research on this subject you will have no time to pay attention to these petty things.
Mard ka dill dard karana chah-e-a but not for petty things and petty complaints , but for big issues , like hunger, poverty, illiteracy , diseases in the world. Rising prices of oil gas , falling property prices, stock market crash etc.
