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Originally Posted by chanda_kh
I am sorry lothario..a successful marriage is between two independent minded people who become co-dependent when brought together..love is heavily reflected through our codependency...think of a marriage as a two headed mythological character..with one body...thats how it is....a married couple is a two headed animal with one body.....period.
Right now, you dont have a 'relationship'....it feels as if your wife has adopted a foreign kid..who hasnt weaned off his birth mother yet.
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i know what you are saying. i am not a child. i will try advice from here. but i do not understand why i should leave my mother to have relationship with my wife. are all married people mother-less?
Everyone sees faults in me, no body is seeing how she is also with problems. She fights, very high temper, blows up, gets my mother involved. Then after fights she ignores me, stops talking me to knowing full well i have no body else to talk to. why does she do that? her excuse is she keeps quiet because i disrespect her. i dont do that unless we fight and aving argument is not dis respect. or is it? ofcourse we are both shouting in a fight.