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Originally Posted by lothario
i know what you are saying. i am not a child. i will try advice from here. but i do not understand why i should leave my mother to have relationship with my wife. are all married people mother-less?
Everyone sees faults in me, no body is seeing how she is also with problems. She fights, very high temper, blows up, gets my mother involved. Then after fights she ignores me, stops talking me to knowing full well i have no body else to talk to. why does she do that? her excuse is she keeps quiet because i disrespect her. i dont do that unless we fight and aving argument is not dis respect. or is it? ofcourse we are both shouting in a fight.
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well then you guys are NOT meant for each other. Couples fight.. but those who love each other learn to sacrifice. I won't talk on your wife's behalf but if you really love her than rather than thinking about her faults, think about her good side. If you can't find any than you are not in love with her. You need to look at her positive side.
Also no one is asking you to leave your mother and never talk to her but every relationship has its place. Sometimes you need to realize that somethings are private between husband and wife. Your fights are your private matter, even if your wife dragged your mom in it, you should try to make sure you don't do the same.
At this point you are not showing maturity that a 28yr old should have.
So stop waiting for us to blame her. we are NOT blaming you, we are showing what your wife *might* be seeing in you as well but won't say it on your face.