Ask99

I think you guys are nit picking on each other because thats the closest target you have to pass time.
How long have you guys been married? What are your ages?
You guys need to understand that marraige is not "welcome to happily ever after".These small things that are being exxagerated into mountains..Please "Pick Your Battles" Not every battle/fight is worth fighting. You have to understand , if you control one reaction of yours to her trying to pick a fight ...the next time she may realize.Patience man!, it is the key.
If you two have a goal set in your life...please make sure that you lay the plan out very clearly by negotiating.."Negotiating" I repeat with each other.There are some things that can really be deal breakers in a marraige, rest you should constantly negotiate and renegotiate.
One thing is when you come into a marraige and from you and I become "we", it sure should not mean the end of the two "I's"
Please make sure both of you have time apart as well as together so you two are in a better frame of mind as to what you are bringing into the marriage. Please keep thierd parties out of your relationship. Life is not a bed of roses..you gotta give some to get some.Good luck!