Lothario your story is exactly how it is when a girl who gets married and goes to somebody else's home. I hope this way you can be more empathatic to how it is with the girls.Please make sure that you keep your eyes to the long term future GOAL, and just take all of these things as difficulties that will only make you guys stronger.

Only as high as I reach can I grow,Only as far as I seek can I go,Only as deep as I look can I see,
Only as much as I dream can I be.