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Originally Posted by psyah
Peace ravage
If they are bad parents then they are bad parents. The number of children was determined by Allah (SWT) not by them. Besides you are using examples of people who have breached the 4 wife limit.
I know a family from Nigeria, the father of whom is the second richest man in the country at that time. He had four wives and 30 children. By Allah (SWT) I could not see such beautiful characters in any people than I did in his children.
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good for your nigerian friend. the point then should be to stress good parenting, and part of good parenting is knowing the number of children you can devote adequate attention and financial resources to.
it would be extremely bad parenting for example for an unemployed father of nine to sire another child on the basis that Allah will give the rizq IMO.