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Originally Posted by hareem01
^Its new only because she became pregnant with the twins, this is the only surprising part. In Western society, having multiple relationship is nothing new.
The rest of your post about 4 marriages is not related to this topic.
Everyone is blaming the woman when those two men, her parents and the society she lives in, has a part in it. But only she has to suffer because she's a female.
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the female is not the only one that suffers. if we set aside the different scales of morals and societal acceptability, in the end based on what everyone has to go through it is an irrespionsible act, the guys are responsible for child support, and that is one system that is so massively flawed that its beyond this thread to post about it, the kids suffer because they do not have a proper family support system, although that is not true in all cases. society suffers as a whole because society picks up the slack, and that burden is distributed to all of us, everyone in that society everyone contributing to the society.
in the end everyone is responsible for their own actions, and the one who has the highest impact should have the highest ownership of the situation as well. the more you have to lose, the more skin in the game you have (pun not intended) the more you have to be responsible. because while it imapcts everyone, if you feel that you have a higher impact than other the more careful you have to be.