Originally Posted by Fizzels

Thank you all ever sooo much...well most of you anyways...
i have decided that i will not go and talk to him and leave him to it. I saw him yesterday and he kept glaring at me (as if he wanted 2 talk 2 me)..I went to another room and avoided eye contact. I no longer need sum1 who is so selfish in my life.


Fizzels, the "glaring" that he is doing is basically a juvenile method of getting your attention. He believes that such extreme behavior will get you to notice him. This behavior in itself is a SIGN that he's a LOSER. There are POSITIVE ways to get someone's attention as well. For example, he could simply go up to you and talk to you and APOLOGIZE. But instead he wants you to chase him. This guy doesn't seem to have a conscience. You are doing the RIGHT and SMART thing by ignoring him. Don't EVER resume friendship with him again.


No i havnt slept with my ex. the only reason i agreed 2 going out is bc everyone else had one and it never seemed ba. But because my family or me arnt the type who have boyrfriends etc etc i couldnt tell ne1 and i told him over the 9 weeks that i wantd 2 end it and he kept saying no.

He kept saying "No?" This guy doesn't have mature communication skills. He will dump a girl without giving her a reason. He won't explain to a girl why he is ignoring her. And on top of that...........he doesn't even listen when a girl says to him she's not comfortable having a relationship with him. He's only concerned about himself and his needs at the expense of others. You're not obligated to tell your future spouse about your past relationships. Refer to the Islamic website link I posted above which deals with this issue.

I had told him if he was to dump A, it shud be his choice and he shouldnt blame me for it. I didnt go out with him for everyone to be like wow she has a man but bc he was literally begging me and i felt i was the reason he had gne quiet and i didnt let anyone knw anyways...thank you all ever so much!
I appreciated comment. thank you all for writing back.