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Originally Posted by Gaia
Correct me if i'm wrong, but it kind of sounds like you guys were depending on kismat for a while, and now you're hurt after he has backed out! So did you love him? I'm guessing not, but it would have lead to love if things got more serious. I'm assuming all of this since, you did not think it was imp to tell your parents, but even more tell him about the rishtas. I would cry a little and move on, becuase neither one of you were serious on marrying each other.
Now its a whole another thing if you cannot see yourself marrying anyone but him!!!
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We did want to marry, and did 'love' eachother, i think it was love. But we tried to me sensible and not put our feeling on the line because we didnt want to be in a full blown relationship until and unless we got married so that if it didnt work out there was not too much heart break
Coming from pakistani families this dating thing and love marriage thing can cause alot of heart ache and its scary telling parents so we were waiting until it was essential.
I did want to marry him, but was prepared to sacrficie for my parents happiness if they said no.
I wasnt prepared for this, for him to say no.
You know what i never knew what i wanted thinking about it.