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Old Jun 22nd, 2009, 10:04 AM   #10 (permalink)  
alvena
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Curious


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Originally Posted by Gaia View Post
So since you DID want to marry each other and did not want to date before shaadi, was it not essential to tell your parents when you were getting rishtas? What were you waiting for? Futhermore, why was it not imp for you to tell him about the rishtas you were getting from the start? And lastly, since it has not worked out (atleast untill now) and you guys "didn't put your feeling on the line," how is it not too much of a heart break?
In my heart and mind i always knew my parents would not be happy with him because of many many things and i just didnt want to deal with it when it wasnt needed, and to me that was when some serious rishta came to light.

He knew my parents will start looking for me but i never told him about specific rishtas.

Looking back maybe i should have discussed it and i was stupid.

I never knew it would so much of a heart break

What hurts is the feeling of rejection he doesnt want me anymore.






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