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alvena · Jun 23rd, 2009, 06:34 PM

RV

i took your advice, we had to meet up to do a presentation together, so we ended talking for about 2 hours.

He basically said alot of things why the relationship is not going to work:

He said he still has feelings for me but said he didnt so i would go away angry and not be hurt but hate him.

He said we dont have a future because we have so many differences, it would just end up in heart break down the line for either us or our families.

He said he is immature has alot of his own worries and issues and finds it difficult to sort out mine maintain a good relationship with burden and sort out his own issues, he needs to work on him and i need to work on me and we need to grow as people at this young age before we have committment.

He said im amazing and deserve better, whether he meant this or not i dont know.

In the end we have decided to try and be friends, we will maintain a professional study relationship until summer break, take summer to recover and then try and build a friendship.

I was ready to go running back, but im glad i didnt, i knoiw this is a blessing in disguise and its hard and horrible and it hurts like hell but i feel satisfied that he told me his true valid reasons.

I feel happy we can be friends, that i havnt lost one of my closest friends.

I need to work on me, i need to think of my future, my studies, my health, my future.

Im going to think from my head not my heart.

Jun 23rd, 2009, 06:34 PM	#34 (permalink)
alvena Senior Member Join Date: Feb 20, 2009 - 2:37 pm Posts: 801	RV i took your advice, we had to meet up to do a presentation together, so we ended talking for about 2 hours. He basically said alot of things why the relationship is not going to work: He said he still has feelings for me but said he didnt so i would go away angry and not be hurt but hate him. He said we dont have a future because we have so many differences, it would just end up in heart break down the line for either us or our families. He said he is immature has alot of his own worries and issues and finds it difficult to sort out mine maintain a good relationship with burden and sort out his own issues, he needs to work on him and i need to work on me and we need to grow as people at this young age before we have committment. He said im amazing and deserve better, whether he meant this or not i dont know. In the end we have decided to try and be friends, we will maintain a professional study relationship until summer break, take summer to recover and then try and build a friendship. I was ready to go running back, but im glad i didnt, i knoiw this is a blessing in disguise and its hard and horrible and it hurts like hell but i feel satisfied that he told me his true valid reasons. I feel happy we can be friends, that i havnt lost one of my closest friends. I need to work on me, i need to think of my future, my studies, my health, my future. Im going to think from my head not my heart.