wa barak Allahu feekum
insha'Allah, I will wait so other may get a chance to reply
@TLK
akhee, you don't have to be sorry to me. Let us have the correct intention, do it to please Allah 'Azz wa Jal. On this note, let me direct you all to a very nice lecture on this:
The Islamic Personality. Since I've got my hand on it, I have been listening to it at least twice a week. You can also download mp3 version from
here
Fi Amanillah, Wa As-Salāmu 'Alaykum
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