bhenjee

very tough alvena,but any relationship is all about give and take. You can't keep on givin him love with him not returning it back. Ideally, if you guys were to get married, how long would you have endured that? You shouldn't even think that you oughta beg him to have him back, why did he have to leave you. I know so many guys in our family and nothing could've stopped them from marrying their sweethearts.

My taya's son, he got engaged to his high school sweetheart and his parents were totally against it. It got called off.. for like 6 months. Later, he was adamant that this was the only girl he wanted to marry, so guess who he got married to down the road!

this guy is already telling you that he wants out and free and baggage less. It's not his fault.. He's too young hunn to be serious about a relationship.. that is get engaged/ tied up.

Also, you call him your best friend and what not.. were you HIS best friend?? Or was he just courteously returning your care for him? If that were the situation, he would NOT have done what he did under any circumstances. Everything he's told you is just bull**** excuses.. Yeah you need time to be up on your feet again, your brain can't just hav a massive memory loss concerning his prior existence in your life. To be honest, I'm glad this happened to you right now. Down the road in real life (aka marriage) he wouldn't have done for you what you might've done for him. And then you wouldve felt real pain and hurt. It's easier to say yeah I know what she's goin on about.. but wait until you're married insha'Allah and your REAL love life begins.