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Alvena, it seems this guy has realised he is not ready nor has the proper resources yet for proper commitment.
But, pityfully, he still has that female attarction.
But i would give you another possible view of his perspective.
Mabe this guy also likes you but:
if so, somtimes we guys are also unsure...the same way you was.
...some of us are yeh over-confident we think we have it all and go for you all when infact we have nothing; some fortunatly are honest and realistic about ourselves and dont want to mislead anyone, which is what this guy seems....
we also need a push..motivation somtimes, from also the girls side...if the girl can convey she can tolerate/comprimise with him the way he is she doesnt expect 10 properties, 10 cars, 10 diamond rings, then we could understand and take a step forward.
I mean I also know people who liked me or i liked, but then i forgot about it because i thought we are either too different or incompatible.
However if a girl conveyed to how much she feels and is sincere towards me, and that she would be willing to comprimise on some things for the time being and some that will probably never be identical, I would be encouraged.
Guys are afraid of the big marriage and burden that could be lessend by saying for the time being engagement or similar would do, and marriage could happned later.
But maybe then again, this guy is yet very young-only 18/19, and has yet to see a lot of life, maybe he hasnt seen how rare the sincere/good people are how they should be valued when infront of you.
but pple should understand Sometimes guys are also shy of making the initiative....we also have concerns of incompatibility etc etc.
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