bhenjee

I agree with what sweetpip's sayin and where he's leading you. Start blogging! Do you like to write? Venting this way helps too. But most importantly, you have to realize that he's happy with you, but he's HAPPIER without you. End of story, the sooner you accept that, the better for you.

Moving on is no easy task. But if you keep on thinking about the ifs and buts, it will take you longer and hence, it will be lot more painful for you. You just have to get out of your mindset. You have to stop seeing his good things, you have to stop thinking over the good times you spent with him and most importantly, you just have to stop thinking about anything to do with him. Why are you torturning yourself by waiting for his platonic advances on you (like you said.. you saw him online on fb chat and couldn't help your wishful thinking..)

If you don't stop doing this, that is telling your heart/ your mind that he doesn't matter anymore, eventually you will see him with another girl and then you will be all broken all over again. I wouldn't suggest you to jump into a rebound relationship, but it wouldn't hurt either if you were to get friendly with some other guys too. And while you're doing that, remember that you're doing that not to make him feel jealous (or anthing at all along those lines) but to live your life for yourself. Perhaps you will meet another guy, who's a lot more fun to hang out with than your ex.

Just meet more ppl. Make new friends.. go out.. don't suck at home. Obviously when you go to sleep at night, it will be you and your thoughts and you will feel all emotional, but eventually, this all will also stop. Try to adopt this: out of sight, out of mind