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Old Jul 1st, 2009, 06:35 AM   #25 (permalink)  
redvelvet
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Originally Posted by mehroze View Post
thank u guys for all ur sugesstions MIL made both of us me and hubby sit down and talked to us about the outfit issue.....he just said to me i am really sorry if i made you feel this way....why dont u gave friends wife a call...so MIL said yes go and call her...and i did she was really happy with the fact that we sent her the outfit n so on i just said bhabhi you will be getting it delievered soon please do let me know if you like it or not. i felt so guilty after all this...

Mehroze, I agree with the above posters that if your husband was really having an affair, he would do his best to keep his affair a secret from you. The fact that he is being open with you about this gift suggests that he is not having an affair with this woman.

There is one thing to consider. Your MIL and husband behaved in a very caring and understanding manner toward you this time. But.......if you continue having suspicions about your husband for every little thing...........then the next time your MIL and husband may NOT be patient with you. Your husband knows you love him so try to have more faith in him and your relationship. You don't want to drive him away with constant suspicions because that reflects a lack of trust and confidence. So, strengthen your relationship with some trust in your partner







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