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Originally Posted by Chicken Biryani
The fact is njgal, yes Allah has given the right in worst cases there is a way out , I totally respect that .... and I also respect the fact that it is Allah who has asked us to stay away from divorce as its the most hated act in the eyes of Allah.
Thats why I said that unless there is a genuine and a true reason that some one is divorced its acceptable , but if someone got divorced coz " hamare khiyal nai miltay etc " or " my inlaws were difficult people and I couldnt survive anymore ".. then apologies but they are just very materialistic individuals and should be denounced ...
A woman being hit by her husband has a solid case , she seeks divorce that is acceptable...
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Those two reasons can be completely valid to seek divorce.
I feel that you are wrong in dismissing every case of divorce on these grounds as having a basis in materialism.
People are different and they react differently. Your threshold of pain may not always be the same as another person's.