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Originally Posted by mistral
Indeed. It's not.
Because people can be crude and unfeeling. In the case of a girl, many will see her as used goods. In the case of guys, they instantly get suspicious and assume that he did something wrong/hurtful/illegal/whatever and don't give him a second glance.
It's unfair and small minded, but that's the way it is.
Fortunately, there are still people out there who have open hearts and minds. Allah bless them.
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Well said and very true, Mistral! While desi society upholds several positive values, there are many absurd notions that not only reflect double standards but also prevent us from progressing as a society.