Quote:
Originally Posted by fayax
Tumhare mun mein ghee shakkar!
Now who wants me?  |
i hate ghee aur shakkar...have anything else?
Quote:
Originally Posted by FairyTale
In west the ratio of marrying ur love or choice is even higher. How do we justify the high divorce rate in such cases? Actually how do we justify the divorce in such cases?
|
simple...majority in the East are more willing to spend the rest of their life in a loveless, meaningless, physically/mentally/emotionally abusive marriage to "save face" and/or "for the sake of the children" or perhaps even for financial reasons as oppose to those here in he west who are not willing to do so.
dont think that just because divorce rates are low in the east that people are happy with their marriages....no! they are just living their life one miserable day at a time.
Quote:
Originally Posted by SkiTTleZ
I'm sorry, what?? could you please elaborate on this sentence here... lost what?
|
exactly what im trying to figure out.
Quote:
Originally Posted by TLK
Ok this is confusing the heck out of me. Divorce is not a disease. Its just a result of unfortunate circumstances. In case of a girl, she could be perfect but hubby could be a drunkard two timer. Why that girl is not as eligible to remarry again as any other never-married girl in the world, if she decided to leave her first hubby?
|
TLK its all due to culture...once a girl has been married...ignorant folks label her as being "used goods" after she is divorced....sickening thing is that it doesnt matter if he has been with another woman or not..they expect their wife to be chaste. Also the baggage issue comes into play....too much emotional baggage to deal with...i suppose. if she has kids....even more so. stupid mentality i think.