I really shouldn't be posting so much today seeing the mountain of work on my desk, but this is far too interesting to pass up.
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And please care to quote where a judgement has been passed?
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Beg pardon? What about this? I quoted the same thing before, and I'm doing it again:
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and no matter how sorry a state they are in , they are not worth my attention. specially when their actions were so against Allah's word
...hamare khiyal nai miltay etc " or " my inlaws were difficult people and I couldnt survive anymore ".. then apologies but they are just very materialistic individuals and should be denounced ...
they are not valid cases for divorce .. it clearly shows that an individual doesnt have the patience or motivation to deal with human relations and sensitivities of life
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Unless I've completely misunderstood, those are judgments. And that (along with other posts) is why people are responding with emotion. Because what's been said seems quite harsh.
Again, I don't think anybody disagrees that divorce should be the last option, but blanket generalizations such as "they should be denounced," generations before had more patience than the current generation, getting divorced for any other reason but abuse isn't "valid," are inaccurate and will naturally prompt a lot of disagreement.