Ok, firstly, your contacts WON'T come out if you cry..... who even suggested that??!!! I wear contacts on a daily basis.... and have cried in them and even slept in them (by accident ofcourse.... when I woke up, got a bit of a shock when I could see everything clearly... thought it was a miracle... haha.. and then realised my contacts were still in my eyes)
Re. coloured contacts.... I wear my green and grey lenses pretty often too... they're by Colourblend.... they don't look fake at all.... it all depends on the company you get your lenses from and how well you can pull them off...
Yep, I love my natural eye colour too (brown ofcourse) but coloured lenses look absolutely great too..
I'm planning on having my natural eye colour for wedding and green for valima....
Nadz, don't wear coloured lenses on both days.... well, unless you want to wear hazel on one day and green on the other.... personally, I think coloured lenses are great.... and who gives a cr*p when pple say "oh you should stick with your natural eyes"..... well, the same can be said about make up..... it's entirely up to the individual what they do.... why others have to comment, I don't know....
Forget everyone Nadz.... do what you want... it's your big day.... you don't want to have any regrets afterwards....