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ok here is my story.
i got married just after finishing my graduation and i was extremly happy about it.i wanted to make my shadi a dream wedding.it was a complete arranged marriage but i loved him truly madly and deeply.my ex-in-laws were so good with me before my shadi [i was nikah-fied to him one yr before my rukshati]and my ex-husband was so understanding .he was like m with u so u dont have to worry abt anything.after rukhsati the whole scenario changed.from the very first day they treated me like a maid.i got pregnant soon after shadi and i was hell excited abt it.but my ex werent so happy.i used to do all the house chores..i was emotionally abused and few times my ex -husband hit me so bad.but still i was quiet.i did watever they ordered me.i did everything to please my ex- and his sis n mother.i m a doctor by profession but i never w0rried abt my career,to me their pleasure was everything to me.his sister n his mother used to tell him bad stuff abt me and i was amazed that he blved them.kher the situation was getting worst day by day,i was not allowed to eat anything without their permission.seriously his mother used to lock the fridge all the time.she gave me baasi roti to eat at the time of breakfast.[i promise m not kidding at all]and stil i made no issue.because i was so happy abt my baby and i loved him. blv u me my doc adviced me to eat alot because i was just 33 kg at the time of my pregnancy .kher i once tried to talk to him abt the situation n he was like..listen if u want to live in this house u have to live with the rules which my mother sets for u.so there was no second complain from my side.i did watever they said.and i never told my parents abt all this because i never wanted them to get worried.
one day i decided to tell my elder sister abt my situation.and she was shocked[bcoz my family never expected my ex-in laws will do such stuff].she called me at once and threatened me to tell all this stuff to amma baba or else she will do that.i cried alot and requested her not to tell this to parents.she didnt tell.but she was concerned abt me.one bad day i was severely dehydrated/hypogylcemic coz i had nuthing to eat that day and i was admitted to hospital.that was the worst day of my life coz i lost my baby.i was mad..i told my parents to take me home with them.my ex- hubby said nuthing n gave me permision to go.then that was the time wen i told my parents abt everything.my soul was badly bruised .i cried like anything and my parents just didnt know wat to do.. finally after going thru discussions with the elder ones in our family they decided to get me divorce.i never wanted to be separated from him.but that was the only way out.and just after three months i was no more his wife.i swear upon ALLAh miyan i did everything to save my marriage.. but nuthing was working..!!
my ex even contacted me after 3 divorces and apologized for wat he did.he told me that he regrets wat he did but it was all over.this is the worst phase of my life so far.it has been almost an yr after my divorce but stil at times i undergo depression.i dont understand y i got such an ugly end to my marriage ,i was the girl who helped everyone.who got loads of prayers from my elders.everyone who used to meet me said that m the most sensible girl of my parents and still i got divorced.such an ugly fate.i lost him.i lost my baby.i kind of lost "my life".
now coming to the topic ..wenever i look back , i realize that there was nuthing left for me to avoid my divorce.i did everything.seriously everything.but may be it was in my fate.n m not happy abt it..but still living my life. =)
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