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I'm so sorry for all those of you girls who went through such terrible marriage problems...
Oddly enough I've got an accquaintance who told me she would never ever divorce her husband no matter what he did to her, instead she would tell everyone how he abused her in order to make him look bad among the Muslim community. She believes if a girl divorces her husband and has a daughter with him that daughter will never be able to marry into a good family due to her mother's "weakness of leaving the man"...In her opinion staying within such a marriage is a sign of strength.
Now don't get me wrong my friend isn't physically abused or anything she is fine, but I find her whole view completely out of the world. Islam gave us the right to divorce, nobody deserves to be humiliated like that.
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