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So whats your brothers relationship like with your father? Or you hubby's relationship with his father? Do they get on? Do they have limited contact because of some history between them? Are they close? If not, why?
How can they make their relationship better if they dont get on in the first place?
My dad and bro do NOT get on at all. They dont even speak. Couple of years ago, my brother got involved in a family business which he was not interested in and lost out on a year at uni because of that! If you locked these 2 in a cage, i dont know who would start eating the other one first. Anyway, since then they always seems to be arguing. Now dad is quite old but mashallah does things for himself. Brother doesnt help on his accord but has to be told!! Basically both are stubborn and will NOT sit down and talk things through!
What can i do to make things better? I am also 7 months pregnant and dad moans about bro to me - asking me to pass this msg and that msg to bro but i dont as i know bro will NOT listen and will only patronise me instead. I have just realised that maybe when the baby comes inshallah, attention will go on the baby and they will forget their probs and maybe maye make up.....
Or am i just dreaming?
Now Scoot!
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