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^Good point Mabrook.
Of course, if you ask the potential person (whether it's a guy or girl), the family of the potential, friends, etc. they are very likely going to say good things. And yeah, people have public faces and private faces.
But it's very difficult to keep an act up constantly. If the person is into something bad, chances are someone might know about it. That's why in the best of situations, the parents of the girl or boy ask and ask and ask around.
But you can only do so much. That's why marriage is a gamble. You do as much investigation as you can, you pray to Allah for the best, and you make your decision.
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