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Originally Posted by mistral
Agreed. It's often too easy for men to get married after a divorce. For whatever reason, people too often put the blame on the ex wife and everybody is eager to believe it.
Then again, this happens quite a bit too. Scratch said it best:
Either of the above two scenarios is bad news. People need to view each potential spouse with an open mind. Divorce should prompt some close questioning and investigation, definitely. But ultimately, it's that person's "sharafat," open-mindedness, intelligence, and kindness that should win the day...divorced or not.
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may be when next time a divorcee wants to remarry ppl should go n talk to both ex partners n their families so whoever will b bluffing n lying it will b easy to detect. i dunno but i always thought abt it that when divorce happens mostly coz of mental/physical n emotional abuse like esclairs where she wasn't allowed to eat then such cases should b taken to media. the girls n their families should approach TV channels n local newspapers. badnami tu shaid larki ki bhi ho but these culprits will b exposed n all they did will b on record.
but these r very bold steps n ppl esp girls families hav to learn to b this much bold n daring.