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Originally Posted by Mabrook
i also like to add that when u do general investigation for a rishta mostly who r u gonna ask abt the guy n his family? the friends, the relatives, the co-workers or the neighbours? most ppl hav good faces for the society n show their ugly faces only behind the walls of their houses. also i see this trend that when u start investigating ppl only say good things" buhat acha rishta hai. buhat achay log hain. hum tu bachpan se jantay hain" but at the end they don't always prove themselves like that n then if u go back to same ppl n ask again they'll say" humain kia pata k aisay hon gay. daikhnay main tu bilkul nahi lagtay"
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yes but then if the person tells u "bad" stuff about them, how likely are we to believe them? we can always blame the third person for being jealous, or whatever. And often times in many cases, they just may be. Like neighbors who have unmarried daughters of their own will badmouth another girl just so they can get a rishta.