|
I can so relate to u sunset.. It seems like whatever ur saying ive been there done that. My brother has been really bad with regards to respect towards my father and since i am a daddies girl this hurts me alot, Then again i dont like to see or feel the tension in my house coz when my dads pissed off my brothers upstairs and shuts himself away. Its never been nice but believe me i dont think theres anything u can directly do fix their feud. Ur dad will always think he's right and ur brother will always think he's right. Just keep doing dua. Ramadhans coming up use that as ur opportunity after evry fast to pray for ur dad and brother. I feel like my ramadhan prayers helped us get over the worst of the ituation. Now its come to the point where evrybodys accepted this is the way it is and if none of them change this is the way it will continue to be. The only thing u can do is samjaa both of them whenever appropriate but for now all u shud b concentrating on is ur baby.
I pray things do get better for u Inshallah
|