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Uggh this whole point of view is so desi seriously...I mean if you don't leave the guy your kids will witness how you are beaten up every day, your son might think it's a normal thing to do to a girl, your daughter will think the same and is likely to suffer the same fate if you don't teach her that she is more worth than that...
I agree that most people don't investigate enough, my friend's sister was married at the age of 16 to a guy from whom they thought he was shareef for he was always attending the masjid. He too became physically abusive towards her and ended up beating her down with a chair, he hit her until the freaking chair broke, then he dragged her outside and locked the house, she was forced to walk all the way to her next relatives from whom she borrowed money in order to travel to her parents' home. Those log were Turkish by the way.
I support everything Mabrook said, one should definately be informed about the circumstances of why the marriage ended and also it should become public, those kind of people don't deserve respect.
A man who hits his wife while she is carrying his child? That's just a low human being in my book, a coward who has no respect for anything so he shouldn't be given any back, nor should he get so many chances to re-marry while his ex-wife remains secluded and is disregarded by the community...
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