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Originally Posted by Mabrook
did ur friend tell wat his wife actually wants?wat r the fights n tanay abt? did he ask her wat she really wants n hav they tried to settle issues together...like if she wants to stay home n not take any course or do job y he has to enrol her by force?if she wants to buy stuff set an amount as a monthly allowance that this much i can afford and buy from ur allowance only. y she shouts? is she crazy r does noone really listens to her n she has to yell to make a point.
if they want to separate they both can work it out together n decide abt the son, his custody n visitations or it can b done legally. the son ca live with mom n regularly visit dad or viceversa.
one more thing though i dunno how feasable it is don't leave her but he remarries n lives separately.
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u think he wudn't hv asked her that by now? they hv been married for 5 yrs now. apparently the actual problem is that she dun want 2 discuss any thing, she wants things to go according to her will and when it does not happen she looses her temper which happens quite often. a couple of relatives/close friends who did tried 2 intervene and understand what she wants have already been humiliated badly by her.
her family is not here so in case they get separated she'll be going back to pakistan with their kid. she right now says bad things abt her husband and his family to the child, imagine wat she'll fill in the child's head if they are living separate and that what worries my friend.
I doubt he'll b remarrying again even if they got separate coz he had suffered so much in this marriage that he dun even want 2 think abt a relationship @least not in the near future