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How will creating such a thread enable you to help your friend's sister?
Will you tell your friend, "So...uh...dude....here's some advice on how your sister can make herself more attractive." ?? And how would your friend respond to that? And what if your friend is already aware that his sister is not conventionally pretty?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've seen people that I personally don't find attractive, but yet they are in a strong and loving marriage. Because someone finds them attractive....not only physically....but personality-wise as well.
At the same time, I've seen women who are frequently perceived as being "pretty" turn off many people (including men) with their toxic personalities.
If this girl is overweight, perhaps she can work on shedding some pounds......not to attract a mate.......but for her own health and self-esteem. If it's her clothing that's the problem, perhaps someone can suggest to her styles that would flatter her more. You can't change your facial features unless you go under the knife, but make-up can help play up her more attractive features. But most people....if they eat healthy, get enough sleep, exercise, dress right, and have a positive attitude.......will appear more attractive.
Last edited by redvelvet; Jul 3rd, 2009 at 11:19 PM..
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