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I think your father needs to ask him out of the house and let him (your bro) earn the money or make him responsible for everything your father's been doing for all these years... the thing with us kids ( yes including my self too) that we take everything for granted.
I was born with a silver spoon in my mouth, yet took everything for granted but when I had to move out and face the reality, it wasn't fun at all.. but it was all worth it ( I woudn't change it for the world)
I think your father has to trust your brother in making decisions, but your brother has to take these major steps on his own without depending on anyone... that's the only way he would respect the father/son relation ship.. and for you, don't take it to your heart, you are pregnant for crying out loud.. where is your husband, what does he has to say about it?
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