personally i like tied up hair with saris...plus i dont know why there is a preconceived notion that tied up hair=looking older.
you be the judge...they certainly dont look old to me
here are some pretty and soft updos.
http://images.totalbeauty.com/conten...updos_p_01.jpg
http://www2.beautyriot.com/stuff/ima...rrie-01-4x.jpg
my absolute favorite
http://media.onsugar.com/files/ons1/...om-updos-3.jpg
http://www.brides.com/images/editori.../001_sec01.jpg
http://hubpages.com/u/507381_f260.jpg
bold red lips look hot with these updos...