I'm getting married 1st week of December in Karachi. I live in Canada, so I can only get there 3 weeks in advance

My mom and sister will be going in October, to get things ready for me, but it sucks that I won't be able to plan things myself. I'm counting on them.
We haven't decided on the venue yet, but it is a choice between Ramada and Arena Club in Karachi, which I haven't heard about.
For the barat I would like to have a deep red gharara with a touch of emerald green in it, and Turquoise for the valima.
For the mehndi, it will be something simple, as the groom's side won't be able to attend.
I hope I can pull this one off
