RupayHalwa

Sunset_eyes, this son/father relationship breakdown is not as uncommon as you think. 3rd parties (i.e. YOU!) can try to do as much as you can to fix things but in the end, it boils down to the individuals themselves to find it within themselves to fix it. Your brother and father have to take the actions for themselves, and it has to come from within them.

Speak to your mum, tell her how much you are upset by this, how much pressure you are being put under, ask her to make your dad understand that this is affecting your pregnancy, then he might back off and think about what he is doing.

Don't make this your burden to bear, it is your brother and father's burden. Let it work itself out with time. If you must, tell your dad yourself that his msg passing is making you upset and stressed at this time, and refuse politely to do it.

Don't be sad, you are praying for them, inshallah they will work it out in their own way, in their own time.